my name is maka laughingwolf hansen.

i am 41 years old, curvy, intensely sensual, pansexual, masochistic, and submissive. i am owned property in a 24/7 M/s relationship.

i live in Norman, Oklahoma with my Sir and our teenage stepson.

i have been actively involved locally in organic farming, sustainable agriculture, alternative energy, sustainable housing, live local music, and radical politics since 2002. i have been actively involved with the local BDSM/leather community since 2005.

i am a healer. that doesn't mean i heal people. it means i heal myself, with the help of facilitators sometimes, and i facilitate other folks healing themselves. my training and experience in the healing arts includes various forms of massage, energywork, nutrition, herbs, meditation, yoga, kinesiology, and more. currently i am pursuing a bachelor's degree in psychology, with the long-term goal of a master's degree in counseling.

i am a writer, because when i'm not writing i feel like i'm not breathing. i write fiction, nonfiction, erotica, poetry, essays, short stories, advice columns, novels, and zines.

i am an anarchist, working in my daily life and in the community around me for radical, revolutionary change.

i am a non-custodial mother. not because i'm not a good mother, but because the system is unjust and because the one with the most money, the one who is closest to the middle-class normative lifestyle 'wins'.

i seek truly sustainable relationships with individuals, with my community, and with the rest of the planet.

i'm still working on the site, so if you come to an unfinished page, please check back later.